fifteen Essential things to consider Prior to trying to get your Old boyfriend Straight back
Whether you did this new throwing or you were the new dumpee, saying goodbye to the person you’re pretty sure was your soul mate hurts like hell. And while we’d like to think it’ll never happen to us,
is a major plot line in intimate comedies, country musical, and sugar-free gum commercials, so don’t worry-you’re not the only person trying to figure out how to get your ex back. It’s a popular trope for a reason, folks.
But before you intoxicated text him/her or send them all the “12 Days of Christmas” gifts like in that episode of Any office, you need to do a little internal work to figure out why things didn’t work out in the first place, explains sex educator Liz Powell, PsyD, author of Strengthening Open Relationships . “Sometimes the timing was off, but sometimes a partner doesn’t work for us because we’re not a fit in general.”
Things like infidelity, betrayal, or a lack of trust are all pretty good reasons to keep your ex firmly in the past, says licensed ily therapist Payal Patel, no matter how hot/funny/a beneficial during intercourse they are. (more…)
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